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Is Forgiveness Good for Your Health?

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A new article on forgiveness (How to let go of grudges — and why it could be good for your health) was published online by the Washington Post on Thursday, April 23, 2026.  The article is behind a paywall ($2 for a one-time purchase of this one article) and can be found at this link! 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

What Does Forgiveness Entail?

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On January 26, 2026, Richard Balkin, a professor at the University of Mississippi, published an article on the website The Conversation discussing forgiveness.  In two places on the site, he defines forgiveness this way:

  1. “At its core, forgiveness is internal: a way of laying down ill will and our emotional burden……”
  2. “……forgiveness comes when we relinquish feelings of ill will toward another.”

Is this philosophically correct?  We would say no because it is reductionistic, focusing on only half of the equation when it comes to the moral virtue of forgiveness.  If forgiveness is a moral virtue, then, as a moral virtue, it concerns goodness toward others.  More specifically, when it comes to forgiveness, the person is exercising goodness toward the one who behaved unjustly.  This would involve not only the free-will attempt to reduce or eliminate “ill will” but also, to be more complete, its essence needs to include the struggle to offer positive feelings, thoughts, and behaviors toward the other person as well, even if the other is no longer in the forgiver’s life.  In other words, even without reconciliation, a forgiver can speak well of the offending person to others.  Reducing ill will and offering goodness captures the essence of forgiveness more accurately than the appropriation of either one alone.

The article can be read here:

What We Get Wrong About Forgiveness: A Counseling Professor Unpacks the Difference Between Letting Go and Making Up

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Insights on Forgiveness & Childhood Trauma

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In a comprehensive literature review, a group of researchers found that forgiving others for adverse childhood experiences can be difficult.  Yet, they conclude in their Abstract, “…..forgiveness of specific perpetrators was associated with better outcomes across studies, though survivors with severe abuse histories typically reported greater difficulty with forgiving. Studies revealed harmful effects when survivors felt pressured to forgive, or not to forgive.”

 

 

The reference to this work is:

Kanter, R. L., & Wortham, J. S. (2026). Forgiveness and Adverse Childhood Experiences: A Scoping Review. Trauma, Violence, & Abuse0(0). https://doi.org/10.1177/15248380251410088

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

An Unprecedented “Big Data” Study in Australia Shows the Association between Forgiveness and Well-Being in Children and Adolescents

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A recent study with 79,670 children and adolescents (aged 7 to 18) in Australia examined whether those who report favorably on forgiveness also have sound psychological health. They concluded their Abstract this way: “These big data findings provide firm evidence that, like adult samples, forgiveness and self-forgiveness are factors in promoting psychological wellbeing, at least among Westernized youth and adolescents.” Of course, because this was not a cause-and-effect study, it is not clear that forgiveness and self-forgiveness promote psychological well-being.  It could be the reverse: Those who are feeling well find it easier to forgive.  Yet, this study is important because it is the first to use such an impressively large sample to examine forgiveness.  The reference to this work is this:

Flaherty, E.M., Strelan, P. & Kohler, M. Forgiveness, self-forgiveness, and child and adolescent mental health: Big data findings from an Australian youth cohort. Journal of Youth and Adolescence (2025). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10964-025-02285-7