Power Versus Love
Current political norms seem to have power as a way to achieve objectives. In light of this, perhaps it is time to revisit the contrast between power and love. The following is an excerpt from the book, 8 Keys to Forgiveness (R. Enright, 2015).
Here are 10 pairs of contrasting statements differentiating between power and love, which may be useful in helping you forgive:
Power says, “Me first.”
Love asks, “How may I serve you today?”
Power manipulates.
Love builds up.
Power exhausts others.
Love refreshes them.
Power is rarely happy in any true sense.
Love understands happiness.
Power is highly rewarded in cultures that worship money.
Love considers money to be a means to an end, not an end itself.
Power steps on others.
Love is a bridge to others’ betterment.
Power wounds—even the one who exerts the power.
Love binds up the wounds, even in the self.
Power is joyless even when it is in control.
Love includes joy.
Power does not understand love.
Love does understand power and is not impressed.
Power see forgiveness as weakness and so resentments might remain.
Love sees forgiveness as a strength and so works to eliminate resentment.
Power rarely lasts because it eventually turns inward, exhausting itself. Look at slavery in the United States, or the supposedly all-powerful “Thousand-Year Reich” of the Nazis, or even the presence of the Berlin Wall, intended to imprison thought, freedom, and persons . . . forever. Love endures even in the face of grave power against it.
