What if the one who hurt me is not well known to me. How can I come to understand this person? Do I have to make something up about this person?

We help people walk through three different perspectives toward the one who was unfair to them: the Personal, Global, and Cosmic Perspectives.  The Personal Perspective is the one that is the focus of your question because this perspective asks you to see the history of woundedness in this person, not to excuse what happened but instead to better understand the one who hurt you.  If you do not know the person well, as you say, this Personal Perspective may not be possible for you.  Yet, you now can take both the Global and the Cosmic Perspective.  I explain these two perspectives in the next two questions because people have inquired about each of these.

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