Why is it important for me as the forgiver to see that the one who offended me and I share a common humanity?

It is important so that you do not dismiss this person as less than you are.  Both of you are persons and because each person is special, unique, and irreplaceable, this perspective can change our views of the other from condemnation to the idea that this is a person even when behaving badly.  This may aid you in softening your heart toward that person as you forgive.

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