My friend was treated unjustly, but she is not open to the idea of forgiveness when I suggest it to her.  What would you suggest?

I would start by gently asking your friend what her definition of forgiveness is.  She may have some incorrect assumptions about what it is.  For example, she might think that to forgive is to give into other people’s demands.  If you can assist her in forming a clear understanding of what forgiveness is and is not, then this might help her in making a decision about whether or not forgiveness is right for her at this time.

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