How can I reconcile with a person who: a) never listens to my side of the story; b) is not trustworthy; and c) he continues to hurt me?

You may have to wait for now to reconcile because the other person still hurts you and is not trustworthy.  It is possible that this person is deeply emotionally wounded from injustices suffered by others and the pain is being displaced onto you.  A hope of reconciliation is this: Can you explore with this person any deep wounds he may have from his past that are getting in his way now?  If he is open to this and forgives these other people, then he might be open to working with you on a better relationship that no longer hurts you.

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