Question 9 of 10: Forgiveness might give the offending person an excuse to keep up with the unfairness. Therefore, forgiveness can be dangerous. What is your view on this one?
The Internet is a double-edged sword. It can enlighten and quickly, but at the same time, it can mislead. When I searched the Internet for the definition and some general issues on forgiveness, I was surprised by a rising consensus in up to 10 areas, each of which seems odd to me. May I ask you to consider each one of these “discoveries” so that you can help me to understand better? Thank you in advance for your time.
When people fail to make a distinction between forgiving and reconciling, this error is dangerous, not forgiveness itself. A person can forgive, by being good to the other even from a distance, but not reconcile. Here is one example: You might have a good word to say to others about the one who was unfair to you. Here is a second example: You could consider donating a little money to a charity that the other likes. These examples can be done as small acts of being good to the one who was not good to you without going back into a potentially harmful relationship.
