I know that you emphasize unconditional forgiveness, or my forgiving even if the other does not apologize. Yet, I want to hear those three little words, “I am sorry” from her. Does this mean I have not genuinely forgiven?
No, your wanting an apology does not mean that you have not forgiven. Do you wish her well? Do you see her inherent worth, and is your heart softer toward her than before? Have you committed to doing no harm to her? If so, you definitely are forgiving, even if you need to deepen the forgiveness. An apology does help in the forgiveness and reconciliation process, and so your wanting this is reasonable.
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