If I forgive my husband for his continual insensitive remarks toward me, this worries me. In other words, where then are the boundaries that need to be set?
The boundaries are in the practice of the moral virtue of justice. Forgive and ask something of your husband. This asking-for-something is what justice is. I recommend starting with forgiveness to lower the temperature of your anger. Then, when you ask for fairness, it may be communicated more gently and even more accurately, as you are not even subtly trying to seek revenge.
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