I have been ignoring a co-worker who is harsh with me. I am wondering if this makes me a bad person. I do not hate the person and I feel sorry for him. I just can’t take the harshness.
It seems to me that your issue is one of reconciliation. You are not harboring hatred, as you say. You even “feel sorry” for him. So, there is no indication of being a “bad person” who might want to seek revenge and be hurtful. So, I recommend that you work on changing your views of yourself, seeing yourself as someone who reduces negative emotions in the face of difficult interactions coming from the other person.
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