Okay, I admit it. I am stuck. As much as I try to forgive one of my parents from childhood, I just can’t make any progress. In terms of negative affect, I remain angry and this is not shifting. In terms of positive affect, I have no positive feelings. So, now what?
Sometimes, when people are having trouble forgiving someone, I recommend that they try the forgiveness process first with a different person toward whom they do not hold as much resentment. This practice can prepare forgivers for the other person toward whom they hold the deeper resentment. As Aristotle taught us from ancient history, as we practice any of the moral virtues, we become more proficient in them.
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