I’m feeling ambivalent about forgiving a college classmate for something she did to me. I would like to know how much heartfelt commitment it takes for me to truly start to forgive.
As you can see, your level of forgiveness commitment can range from quite low to very high. This may also change over time. Here is a key issue for you: Are you prepared to make a commitment, even a small one, to do no harm to the person who wronged you? Do you have a clear understanding of what forgiveness is and is not—for example, that it does not instantly reconcile or excuse? You are prepared to proceed with the forgiveness process if you are motivated to do no harm and you know what forgiveness is.
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