It seems to me that forgiving myself is harder than forgiving other people. Do you agree with this, and if so, why might this be the case?
I agree that it often is harder to forgive ourselves than to forgive other people. I think this is the case because we tend to be harder on ourselves than on others. Therefore, it may take more practice and more time to forgive oneself. Also, if people deny their wrongdoing, this can delay self-forgiveness, making it difficult due to a lack of practice. Further, some people distort self-forgiveness, thinking that it is about forgiving one’s own sins, which is not what self-forgiveness is. We do not forgive other people’s sins when we forgive them for wrongdoing. Instead, we begin to see the humanity in the other person. It is similar with self-forgiveness in that we see our own humanity and conclude that we are more than the offenses we have committed, without using this as an excuse to keep engaging in the unjust behavior.
