Do you think that, as people forgive and see the one who acted unfairly as a genuine human being with weaknesses, there is a tendency to reinterpret that person’s intentions connected to the actions?  In other words, the forgiver then does not see the intention as a desire to do bad things?

I think, as people forgive those who had bad intentions, the forgivers still see the intent as bad.  The forgiveness response does not change the perception of the other’s intent.  Instead, forgiving changes how the forgiver perceives the offending person as someone of inherent worth, despite the bad intent.

Please follow and like us:
author avatar
directorifi
Categories: Ask Dr. ForgivenessTags: , , , , , , , , , ,

Comments

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *