When I think about giving a gift to the one who hurt me, I see a complication. He thinks he has done nothing wrong. Whatever I give in the name of forgiveness will only serve to make him angry. So, what do I do now?
You need not proclaim that you are giving him a gift. You could, for example, donate a little money to an important charity and do so in his name. You might say a kind word about him to one of your friends or family members. Even these can be healing for you as you forgive in this way.