My boyfriend and I have been arguing lately, and I find myself bringing up past things that I thought were resolved and for which I believed I had forgiven him. Considering how often I bring up the past problems, do you believe I really have forgiven him for them?
Since you say that forgiveness is now a part of you, it appears to me that you have started the process of forgiving. Please remember that it is normal to still feel some pain from past injustices. If you want to lessen your excessive anger from those situations, then I suggest that you continue to forgive him for those past events, knowing that you already have made progress. Your being more forgiving should help you to no longer bring up those past events.
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