I have forgiven my mom, but she refuses to see any wrong that she has done. I’m now an adult living away from home. Although my brother and I bear scars from her carelessness when we were growing up, she denies any neglect. My brother and I have given this matter a lot of thought, and we both feel that it is unfair. How can we show this to my mom?
Your mother appears to be denying what actually occurred. It can be challenging to alter such a psychological defensive mechanism. This can take some time for your mom. The denial may lessen if she sees your love and support without conditions. Try, in the spirit of forgiveness, to gently bring up one specific instance of neglect when she witnesses and feels your unconditional love. Together, the tangible referent and the unconditional love could help your mother overcome her denial and become receptive to your forgiveness.
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